tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post8068091674005723101..comments2024-02-15T02:30:28.535-05:00Comments on Fourth Grade Nothing: The Internet Hurts: Dumped By A Fellow BloggerAllyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06076912971009055017noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-19112707418272539482010-01-18T06:59:26.465-05:002010-01-18T06:59:26.465-05:00Don't let it bother you! I love reading your ...Don't let it bother you! I love reading your posts! It's great to have another blog you can relate to...California Keyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09105598836618841680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-12154811404442652872010-01-16T15:19:51.422-05:002010-01-16T15:19:51.422-05:00I so want this shirt!!!I so want this shirt!!!Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01075968216251242417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-11864699332302250802010-01-16T12:53:43.619-05:002010-01-16T12:53:43.619-05:00I completely understand where you're coming fr...I completely understand where you're coming from!!! I started my blog just for me, so I could write out my thoughts on things of interest. I was so amazed to get some followers, but the very first time the # of followers dropped by one, I was mortified. Who had I pissed off? Who didn't like what I was saying? I actually posted an open apology to whoever it was! I post about such a varied list of things - the hurt from my husband's affair, Paganism, couponing, food reviews, books, etc., that I guess some people who might've signed up on one of those topics didn't want to read about the others. Yes, the Internet sets us thin-skinners up for such a "what did I do wrong?" feeling!! I love your blog!!!!I'm So Prettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08131740631286018976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-11674404205221292902010-01-16T04:22:29.022-05:002010-01-16T04:22:29.022-05:00Yep, I know what you mean. Not even so much on the...Yep, I know what you mean. Not even so much on the 'puter but in real life, like the birthday thing. Sometimes I get really oversensitive about it, other times I convince myself I don't care if someone apparently doesn't like. If I'm honest, I do care, but it makes me feel so much better to know I'm not alone!Santahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01557440546916103003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-78800347081959270542010-01-15T19:25:34.539-05:002010-01-15T19:25:34.539-05:00see you are loved!!!! woohooo:P
lol ur recaptcha ...see you are loved!!!! woohooo:P<br /><br />lol ur recaptcha word is "hookin" I just had to share that bc it the best one I have gotten yet!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-24986952110842181362010-01-15T14:15:23.286-05:002010-01-15T14:15:23.286-05:00I too share in your paranoia. Whenever I notice th...I too share in your paranoia. Whenever I notice that a Facebook friend has dropped me I rack my brains trying to figure out who it was. I try to rationalize that since I don't know who it was, it shouldn't really matter. But it still hurts a little.LadyJ3000https://www.blogger.com/profile/16688055234500893289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-57719849587598354932010-01-15T12:13:25.074-05:002010-01-15T12:13:25.074-05:00As my mother once told me when I was very young: ...As my mother once told me when I was very young: it's WAY better to have one good friend than several mere acquaintances. Look at all the friends who've commented so far - you are loved!Sandi Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11955614210042555249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-15658346980944290012010-01-15T10:53:10.113-05:002010-01-15T10:53:10.113-05:00As someone who is about to go on a date with a fel...As someone who is about to go on a date with a fellow blogger and then write about it, I panicked when I saw the title of your post. Was it going to be a tale along the same kind of lines?<br /><br />Instead its about something even worse! I agree and understand everything you've said! <br /><br />I do try my best not to analyse everything to death anymore though because the amount I've times I've worried about someone not texting me or replying to a facebook message or whatever and generally it is because of something that is happening in their lives and is nothing to do with me. <br /><br />Then of course you feel egotistical for even thinking it was about you in the first place!!<br /><br />www.talesfromthetower.co.ukRapunzelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06718347972677250304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-5383036261081673022010-01-15T09:03:31.595-05:002010-01-15T09:03:31.595-05:00The birthday issue sucks. I know how you feel. And...The birthday issue sucks. I know how you feel. And, thanks for your support with my latest blog.Elle Mosquedahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04560020495589598716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-75574548787013273842010-01-15T03:31:02.001-05:002010-01-15T03:31:02.001-05:00Awww, Ally I completely get where you're comin...Awww, Ally I completely get where you're coming from. Although what I find even worse than being de-friended on Facebook is when you submit a friend request to someone you always thought you were good friends with and they just don't accept, even though you know that they are on there regularly! <br /><br />Chin up missus and keep blogging - I'm a new follower and I love your blog!<br /><br />Tuppence<br />xTuppencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04629663291402664822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-37501347613166918532010-01-15T03:03:09.831-05:002010-01-15T03:03:09.831-05:00I just don't get it. I find your blog strangel...I just don't get it. I find your blog strangely addictive, mostly because I have the feeling that you're a wonderfully honest person and your personality really shines through in you're writing. I already feel that I know you just in the short time I've been following.<br /><br />So, I'm not going anywhere, and I know I'm not alone. You still have faithful minions!! ;o)Grgghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12824909219096738826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-29695083113044214352010-01-15T01:01:22.072-05:002010-01-15T01:01:22.072-05:00Ally,
For every one person that dumps you, there ...Ally,<br /><br />For every one person that dumps you, there are five others waiting in line to get to know you. <br /><br />Eff the dumpers, you don't need them!Pandorah's Boxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17675389717822828644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-53414737306798352852010-01-15T00:07:17.615-05:002010-01-15T00:07:17.615-05:00THANKS SO MUCH!!! I feel so honored. And please, a...THANKS SO MUCH!!! I feel so honored. And please, anytime you need an e-shoulder to lean on I'm there.Copyboyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00339752422561039109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-72644559501442056082010-01-14T23:27:14.161-05:002010-01-14T23:27:14.161-05:00I can't believe all of the feedback I've g...I can't believe all of the feedback I've gotten on this post. Thank you so much for listening to me rant. I really appreciate it. Just writing this helped me get over it. :)Allyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06076912971009055017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-32903083216391331912010-01-14T23:22:06.395-05:002010-01-14T23:22:06.395-05:00I DO wonder about this sometimes but it doesn'...I DO wonder about this sometimes but it doesn't bother me very much. However.. I used to follow a certain blog informally as well as this bloggers tweets. One day I tried to follow the blog officially through Google friend connect, and got a message that they had blocked me. <br /><br />I couldn't even remember commenting on the blog, so I wondered what the heck I did to warrant a block! I reciprocated by un-following them on Twitter, because really.. if they wanted nothing to do with me.. then what was the point.<br /><br />Hmmmm.. hope I didn't bum them out by dropping their follower number. LOL! It's a vicious cycle isn't it?!?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12791420477284901556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-82994794208824832882010-01-14T23:12:49.296-05:002010-01-14T23:12:49.296-05:00I totally get what your saying. Amen sister friend...I totally get what your saying. Amen sister friend.QuixoticGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11706402071994806002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-73384629475801924502010-01-14T21:46:38.135-05:002010-01-14T21:46:38.135-05:00It just wouldn't upset me that much. Only fac...It just wouldn't upset me that much. Only face to face real life friends doing something like that would bother me. Online you don't always know the people as well as you think. People get hurt and offended all the time. I've been in Yahoo Groups where someone writes something that's offensive to one person and funny to everyone else. Online is so different from face to face relationships. You can't control the way others react, so try not to let it bother you. And whatever you do don't change the way you write because you're very good and very funny!Bettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09068151073417372746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-34240209399773848572010-01-14T21:01:16.524-05:002010-01-14T21:01:16.524-05:00Since we talked for a while today, you know how I ...Since we talked for a while today, you know how I feel about this. I love, love, love that FB t-shirt. Hilarious!!!!Mass Hole Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18394886442191654012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-3081122481508013512010-01-14T20:30:51.251-05:002010-01-14T20:30:51.251-05:00Ally, if it makes you feel any better that has hap...Ally, if it makes you feel any better that has happened to me before too. And I always wonder who it could have been who deleted me and why would they do that. The way I see it, the people who delete themselves from your life aren't the people you'd want around anyways. The true friends will always be around :)Krishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05173853618550939126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-89470378069065036192010-01-14T20:20:49.499-05:002010-01-14T20:20:49.499-05:00@TS - yes! I remember chatting on AOL chat rooms. ...@TS - yes! I remember chatting on AOL chat rooms. I wonder if they still exist. That does suck :(<br /><br />@Angeli - I was going to say that, how funny it is that "unfriended" was made a word in 2009. Ha ha!Allyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06076912971009055017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-31816621266178983212010-01-14T20:09:28.130-05:002010-01-14T20:09:28.130-05:00awwww! dont feel bad. altho i kno its kinda hard n...awwww! dont feel bad. altho i kno its kinda hard not 2. It sucks 2 lose some1 as a follower/friend. Ive been "unfriend"ed (word of 2oo9 btw...) on facebook and twitter a dozen times, who maybe a thousand times over that. it hurts mostly on twitter. it makes me feel some kinda odd way but i get over it. were not green and of trading value u kno...<br /><br />feel better!AngeliStarrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07295149984798152099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-42824648599822479412010-01-14T19:10:20.599-05:002010-01-14T19:10:20.599-05:00These things happen and they suck. I had an online...These things happen and they suck. I had an online friend from the days of AOL chat rooms who suddenly just stopped talking back a couple months ago. Couldn't figure out why.<br /><br />It has a bit of sting to it, but hopefully the fact that others dig on your blog will help those nagging thoughts dissipate quickly.TS Hendrikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12965357024150434808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-84745161412930239202010-01-14T19:04:07.089-05:002010-01-14T19:04:07.089-05:00You're going to see an ebb and flow of people ...You're going to see an ebb and flow of people on your blog -- you can't let it get to you!RainyDaySaverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16132492632322814192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-86312390657483705922010-01-14T18:37:58.128-05:002010-01-14T18:37:58.128-05:00@Lisa and Ian - you guys are so awesome. I know yo...@Lisa and Ian - you guys are so awesome. I know you're right. Again, not to dwell on my lost buddy, but I don't think it was my blog that pissed off the bud. I think it was a comment I left on their blog which is why I feel bad. Our blogs are ours. What we say is up to us. I just don't want to go leaving nasty comments unaware that I'm a jerk. Ya know?Allyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06076912971009055017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3962663674229618682.post-82464886857640599002010-01-14T18:32:29.377-05:002010-01-14T18:32:29.377-05:00You know what. I might look like an ass and rant ...You know what. I might look like an ass and rant and rave on my blog and what not but I totally feel for you. But you know what? Way I see it everything happens for a reason. Chances are this person left and I and at least a few others since I posted your award have joined.<br /><br />I'll do my part to make sure you get some more quality readers your way. <br /><br />Don't dwell on the negative, although it feels really good to get your emotions out in blog form. I commend you on that. But I commend you even more with your note realizing how great the friends you do have on here are.<br /><br />You have a friend in me :)Ianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13869781257641926094noreply@blogger.com