Teen Sex Talk: Getting To Third Base
Third Base: Is venturing off into feeling your mate's private areas like down there.
My First "Third Base" Experience: Friday, September 29, 1989 age 16
Where: My bedroom
With Whom & How: My first real boyfriend, we'll call him "J" ... I loved him so very much. He was sweet, sensitive and very passionate. He's gay now. But we're both okay with that. It's just so odd sometimes to think that some of the most tender moments of my youth were spent with a man who has me to thank for all of his first and probably last intimate female interactions. Don't blame me for his sexual preferences, he told me it honestly has nothing to do with me and I do believe that.
The diary entry reads much too graphic to share. We'll just say something happened where we were laying in the dark on my bed listening to The Cure and the kisses got a bit too intense. My family was out that night and I'm sure they had no idea he was planning on swinging by. I had a knack for secretly inviting boys over when my parents were out for the night. In sixth grade I missed my buddy John's Hot Skates party for having Alfred over.
So there you have it. Third Base. A wonderful place to explore with someone you really care for. Make sure your first time "At Third" is with someone worth sliding home with.
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These posts are helping me more and more understand Paradise by the Dashboard Lights.
The Cure. Always the Cure.
High school making out was the best. Oh so frantic!
Hehehehe How right you are my dear, how right you are!! ;-)
What a great last sentence of this post! It's a sweet anecdote too.
Cheers,
Robyn
I'll never forget my first third base experience. Sadly, that's not a good thing. Ick. (Thankfully he didn't hit a homer.)
Did you keep lots of diaries? I never wrote any of this stuff down ;)
Is that Edward Scissorhands in the picture?
Thanks for taking the time to explain what each base actually refers to. As a non-American I've really only been able to make an educated guess before.
I think you missed a base. I'm not sure what the penalty for that is in Baseball.
I don't remember my first time on 3rd but I remember when my bestie, Blondy, got there. We were leaving some clandestine party that was in the middle of nowhere and she announced "Guys! I TOUCHED IT!"
Meh, I liked the dry hump the most.
I listened to the Cure well before my friends (thanks to older siblings) and didn't love them at first, but felt certain it made me seem cool and deep. I grew to love them...because who wouldn't, and now my daughter kicks along to the Rock-A-Bye Baby instrumental versions of their songs. Full circle.
I don't even remember that. I was probably drunk!
Why are you even posting this if you aren't posting the diary entry.
Post the fucking entry now and who gives a shit what anyone thinks.
What about stealing a base?
I like Jennerific's comment
Ally, I so love you putting your rounding of the bases out there.
Oh, and hey, I had a gay boyfriend, too! And Good Night, was he gorgeous! We did some lite fooling around. But, what we were best at was talking, talking, talking. Hmm. Should have known something was up. There were never any other boys who found talking to be the most scintillating thing to do in the car.
Ironically, many years later, he told me he and his best friend had started experimenting that year together. His mother would not allow us to be alone in the house with each other, but best friend spent the night every weekend. How bout them apples?
OMG we have a similar trait with our first loves. I will have to tell ya about it sometime.
I wonder when it is the time to talk to kids about sex. My 7 year old made a comment about a picture in a magazine. She said the guy looked like he was having sex. Ok I watch nickelodeon when the kids are up. We never watch anything for her to know what that is. I was shocked and she wouldn't tell me where she heard it.
Ahh! I want the graphic details. I know, it's a sickness of mine.
Also. The Cure. They have a habit of doing this to people.
And hey. Look at the picture you posted up top...doesn't the guy look like freakin' Edward Scissorhands???
Mimi, you silly! It is Edward Scissorhands :)
LOL. The details, the details. LMAO. What's third base? How do we know you actually got there. I'm with Ian. Get to it! Just kidding.
I really had to think to remember but I was 15 with my first time at 3rd. I really like your last line in this post Ally. So sweet.
My wife is my only third base and my only home run.... lol
I was hoping it would be a bit more juicy.
email me your diary page...lol
Wait a min, if that's 3rd, then what is 2nd? I always thought 'upstairs' (kissing, necking, over the clothes, etc...) was 3rd and 'downstairs' (under the clothes & invasive) was 2nd.
I think 1 of my 1st "real" boyfriends is now gay -haven't talked to him in a long time. I'm just glad he's not the 1 who took my virginity-for awhile I thought it might be -But,luckily we broke up before that happened.
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